Wednesday, February 11, 2009

外婆 。好好走

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这是一月十八号我在机场等待上飞机的时候,写下的一篇文章。

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写到这里,飞机到了。

我还记得,
临走前,我独自去和外婆道别。
我说:“再过一个星期我就会回来了。
外婆也是没有说话,只是mmm... mmm...的几声,
她好像有好多话要和我讲,只是说不出声,我也听不懂。
突然那时候我看见外婆瘦弱的右手,
很用力很用力,战抖地试着抬起来,
似乎要和我挥手道别,
我赶紧地去握起外婆的手...

我说 “哦,再见nah, mah!


就这样一次告别后,
我再也见不到外婆了。

一月二十七日, 早上九时十七分
表妹打来的一通电话- “外婆没有了...

外婆安详地走了。
什么也没带走,
留下来的却是一份很珍贵的礼物 - 亲情。
在那一个月里面,
大家从共处,到对彼此的尊重,
从中共同发出的多少欢笑声...
我都会记住。
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外婆火化当天,
当我望着外婆的棺木给推进火房的最后一刻,
我看见了外婆,灿烂可爱的笑容。
外婆走好,
一路顺着光,到开心的极乐世界去。
不要担心我们,外公和您所有的子孙都会好好的活着。
dearest grandma
我们都很爱您,永远怀念您。


花了很长的时间,终于完成了这一册摄影纪录 Photo Album:
【外婆。好好走 Grandma's Funeral】 (点击这里 click here to view)
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grandma's funeral

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摄影纪录 Photo Album:
【外婆。好好走 Grandma's Funeral】 (点击这里 click here to view)


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22 comments:

  1. you have capture the greatest smile of your family~ even your grandma~ feel so sad every time i see these picture. hope everything goes well dick.

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  2. 有你們陪在身邊,我相信你外婆今生無憾了。

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  3. My condolence to you and your family... Take care.

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  4. 我相信珍惜是你們給你外婆最大的禮物了。
    加油!:)

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  5. Woei..我相信你外婆现在在另一个更适合,让她可以安息的好地方。

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  6. Dick ,多年没见你,也失去跟你contact的机会.在这里加了你,但没想到第一次View你的profile,却看到了这篇文章。很感动,感动的是。。。那份重要得礼物。。。(亲情)

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  7. woei...sorry to know this news. sorry that i couldn't be there too. take care bro! feel free to come bangkok find me k? haha..:>

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  8. sorry bout that...我们一家人听到这消息时也很感慨。。。anyway, do take care...

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  9. my tears comes put as i read... really touching... i overcome this b4, it was my god mother, then grandma as well, followed by my fifth uncle...

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  10. Thank you all for all the concerns. I'm ok, I know in our life we need to go through things like this.

    As for my grandma, I know she feels released too, and is living in a happy place now, walking, eating, hanging out with friends, laughing... and most the time, she will be watching and blessing at all of us. :)

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  11. really "gan dong" once read through with photos...really touching.....i think ur grandma really proud of u....JIA YU, my fren!


    ( [T][T]/" {ah ma, i'm ah dick's fren! say hello to my grandpa if u know him at there!)

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  12. 看完了过后很想哭~
    外婆的笑脸是那么的慈祥~
    Dick要坚强哦...

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  13. Dick~~ feel so sorry... i cant really attend the funeral...

    u did shoot the greatest smile of your family~~ take care ya~ support u always~

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  14. My Deepest Condolences to All the Family members,

    Dick, You did a very good job. The pictures you took says it all about your family ties.

    Take good care and looking forward to meet you one day!

    I am Szee's girlfriend, Janice.

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  15. Hi Janice, thanks for dropping by! Nice to meet you. :)

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  16. i'v learnt that...
    letting go is a form of love as well.

    when you love someone very dearly, you'll find strength to let them go.
    the pain of seeing your loved ones suffer is far worst than losing them.

    They will always be missed and their smiles will always be in our hearts.

    **will ask my dad to show ur grandma around the new neighbourhood :) take care..

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  17. Thank you chin... thank you... other than that, I really dunno what to say liao...

    You take care too...

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  18. feel sorry for u... be strong.
    this remind me that there still alot of family with us now, do care b4 too late.

    i like the arrangement which start and end with
    the 10 grandson.

    move forwards....

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